How to Defeat the Well-Meaning “Supporter Saboteur”!
It is Bizarre How Family and Friends Keep Clients from Success
We Show You How to Spot and Fix These Hidden Problems
Hello Hypnotists!
Erika and I are back from the NGH Convention and it was a blast!
Erika received the 5-PATH® IAHP 1%ers Award in recognition of her leadership in the profession.
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I was fortunate to get two different awards while I was in Marlborough, Massachussetts for the convention. The first I accepted was at our 5-PATHers Awards Dinner at the convention which was a Delta shaped award recognizing my contribution to the development of the 5-PATH® International Association of Hypnosis Professionals, and then I received the Ormond McGill Award (Chair) at the NGH Awards Banquet after being nominated by the attendees as ”Best-of-the-best 2015 Convention Presenters”!
Erika Receiving the 5-PATH® IAHP Top One Percent Award
Receiving the “Delta Award” with Erika, Celeste and Brenda (Co-Hosts)
Receiving the Ormond McGill Award (Chair) from Dr. Dwight Damon, President, NGH
Dealing with the “supporter saboteur”
Erika brought this topic to the Hypnosis, Etc. program. Did you know that there is a “saboteur” at work in some of your hypnosis sessions? This sneaky saboteur can slowdown or even kill your client’s success!
First, you have to identify the saboteur and then you have to stop him or her before your hypnotherapy sessions are sabotaged!
This saboteur is sometimes a well-meaning saboteur who comes in the form of a spouse, significant other, or family member who wants to help. Sometimes they push clients into your hypnosis office before they actually want to make the change.
Sometimes your client can have an inner saboteur who wants to fail! That is right, some hypnosis clients actually WANT to fail, and we will show you how to deal with this covert operant!
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I’m already getting feedback on this episode from hypnotists on other client saboteurs they’ve dealt with in their office – including well-meaning but not helpful comments from doctors and other professionals.
Leave us a comment below on client saboteurs and how you’ve dealt with it in your office, I’d love to hear about your experience!
Another great podcast!
I also wanted to pass along another idea…..
“My doc says I have to”…….”My wife has developed an allergy to the smoke”…..”I love to smoke…and I don’t want to quit…….but I have trouble walking up stairs.” “I don’t want to quit/lose weight/drive on the expressway……whatever……” But….this is why I called.
The important thing is they are at last entertaining the idea. Of course, if it’s clear that they want to prove this doesn’t work…..they’ll be right. And we want to weed out those prospects for all the reasons you said.
But…..EVERYONE has done something in life they don’t really want to do!
Ask them if they WANTED to change the clocks for daylight savings time. No..but they did it…and two days later they didn’t even remember it.
What else do they or have they done that they really don’t/didn’t want to? Get up early for work? Take public transportation? Change diapers….Take calculus to get their degree…….whatever.
Then go looking for the resources they used to get thru that experience. They can borrow those resources….things like tenacity, determination, stubbornness, a bet….whatever! Apply those resources for success to this change as well.
What will they get out of life when their wife quits nagging? How will that benefit them?
Just some additional thoughts.
Karen
Loved the idea for the Magic Problem Solving Button. Love ways to make our work fun, humorous and creative. Thank you for sharing.